Fair Isn't Identical: Handling the eternal 'that's not fair'
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Fair Isn't Identical: Handling the eternal 'that's not fair'

Lena Fairwood · narrated by Clover

2026

3h 34m$4.99

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Every family runs into it: one child gets new shoes, another gets a haircut, and suddenly everything is a courtroom. This is the calm case for a different standard: why identical treatment is not the same as fair treatment, how to explain decisions kids can actually accept, and phrases that end the debate without shutting down the relationship. Steady, clear-eyed guidance for the sibling squabbles that seem to have no end.

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17 chapters

  1. 1Introduction4m
  2. 2Chapter 1: Let's Talk About Fair14m
  3. 3Chapter 2: The Truth About Fairness14m
  4. 4Chapter 3: Why Kids Keep Score15m
  5. 5Chapter 4: Naming the Feeling Behind the Fight14m
  6. 6Chapter 5: One-on-One Time That Fills the Cup15m
  7. 7Chapter 6: New Words for an Old Argument14m
  8. 8Chapter 7: When Comparisons Creep In14m
  9. 9Chapter 8: Chores, Turns, and Other Tricky Splits15m
  10. 10Chapter 9: Calm in the Middle of a Meltdown15m
  11. 11Chapter 10: Modeling Fair Without Being Perfect15m
  12. 12Chapter 11: When Needs Aren't the Same16m
  13. 13Chapter 12: Little Rituals That Keep the Peace16m
  14. 14Chapter 13: Repairing After the Blow-Up14m
  15. 15Chapter 14: When to Look Deeper15m
  16. 16Conclusion3m
  17. 17About the Author1m
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