Fair Isn't Identical: Handling the eternal 'that's not fair'
Lena Fairwood · narrated by Nora Crane
2026
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Every family runs into it: one child gets new shoes, another gets a haircut, and suddenly everything is a courtroom. This is the calm case for a different standard: why identical treatment is not the same as fair treatment, how to explain decisions kids can actually accept, and phrases that end the debate without shutting down the relationship. Steady, clear-eyed guidance for the sibling squabbles that seem to have no end.
19 chapters
- 1What Is In Here2m
- 2Foreword5m
- 3Chapter 1: The Fairness Trap12m
- 4Chapter 2: Fair Doesn't Mean Same14m
- 5Chapter 3: Why Little Ones Keep Score12m
- 6Chapter 4: Watching Your Words10m
- 7Chapter 5: Sharing Your Attention12m
- 8Chapter 6: The Treats and Snacks Question14m
- 9Chapter 7: Chores Without the Grudge Match12m
- 10Chapter 8: Screens, Toys, and Turns12m
- 11Chapter 9: When Ages and Needs Differ13m
- 12Chapter 10: Gifts, Money, and Birthdays12m
- 13Chapter 11: In the Heat of the Moment12m
- 14Chapter 12: Stopping the Comparisons12m
- 15Chapter 13: Your Simple Fairness Routine13m
- 16Chapter 14: When It's More Than Fairness13m
- 17The End of the Path3m
- 18About the Author2m
- 19The Rest of the Work1m
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